Going back to the bare bones

I've been working on training myself to cum on command.  I believe that it has been working, but it has been slow goings.  Along with using the command, I have changed my methods.

I used to only play one way, one position, same method every time.  I would use a vibe sometimes, but every time I would focus on the end result without thinking about how I was essentially training myself to only be able to cum one way.

So now, I have eliminated using vibrations.  I use my vibe sometimes, but only as an insertable, I don't turn it on, and when I use it that's all I focus on until I get to a plateau, then I will throw in a bit of clit stimulation.  I have also tried sitting positions, laying on my stomach and even straddling a pillow while using an insertable.

I'm not rushing it though, I dont' really play when the kids are home since they are in the room with me.  I wait until the weekends when they are gone and do a different method or technique once a weekend.

I think it has been working very well.

Today Master told me to play roughly with my nipples and while I was stretching and twisting them with the piercings I got incredibly aroused (more than nipple attention usually get me) and needed to have something inside of me.  I asked if I could use my vibe (left off) and he said "yes, fill My pussy" (wich btw... I LOVE when he calls it His).  I used only the vibe to start and got to the point where I was so close to an orgasm, I just couldn't quite get get over the edge.  As I was still using the vibe I started playing with my clit and was able to cum in maybe a minute or two.  Up until recently it would take about 80% clit stimulation for me to cum.  Today it took 3%.  I would call that progress.